Don't Want Her In My Home!

My parents have never seen where my husband and I live. This is because I do not want my mother in our place.

I don't want to hear her disrespectful and controlling comments. Our home is our sanctuary and my husband and I don't want negative energy.

She will tell us how to run our home and how to decorate it.
My husband can't stand my mother, but he tolerates her because of me. He hates her because she was an abusive parent, she meddles and she is very materialistic. I don't want an argument to break out between my mother and my husband. He told me that he will only bite his tongue for so long.

Yesterday I spoke to my mother on the phone. She told me that when she comes to visit, she will be bringing her own food because she doesn't want what I cook. I think that's incredibly rude. Am I being too sensitive? My husband said that maybe he should bring a lunchbox when we go to my parents for dinner.

My father is one of my best friends, but he is afraid of my mother and agrees with whatever she says. I complain to him about her because my mother gets embarrassed when my father knows about her nasty comments. He always says that I should be glad that my mother is so nosy and she has more experience blah blah blah blah....

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